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He follows me around wanting to have a R talk




Eeeeeeewwwww. #2 used to follow me everywhere, piglet. Is H not respecting your need to let the R discussions rest for a month? Maybe you're scaring him with your newfound resilience.

Don't accept responsibility for his suicidal ideation. My H yelled at me during an argument, "if I commit suicide it will be all your fault." I told him his actions were his responsibility. IMO, those types of comments are manipulation through guilt, not suicide threats.

Muddy - love your music!


married 6 years, mom of 2 struggling to make a strong family