Happy belated Birthday! I know EXACTLY what you mean about being stuck between good DBing and making it too easy for your H.
I just got really down this morning because H is still maintaining online accounts that include OW but are not known to me. I admit that I had to snoop to find them.
Why is it that my H has these two separate lives it seems? I get really confused and think that although I see some really good results it might not be enough to get us over the hump of his "friendship".
My h has admitted that he has problems with secrecy. I need to find a way to address this before I agree to move back in with him. I hate that he won't or can't see that he continues to be secretive. I WILL NOT call him on his secretive actions! I am not his Mom!
Sometimes I think that our H's want us to call them on their bad behavior and then get angry at us when we do. I hate that cycle and I need to find a way to address it.
It seems like we are pretty much in the same boat. Do you want to compare notes and help each other with our strategies?
