Need Advice on How to Move On

[purplepermelia]

Hello piglet and sikan. Both of us are also depressed. I'm doing okay now thanks to paxil but my H is suffering bigtime. I have a copy of Depression Fallout and it's helpful.

Piglet, my H hates to be comforted. He wants me to leave him completely alone = do not speak to him for several days if need be. I'm great at the comforting part and he wants isolation. Isn't it odd how married people have to learn what the other person needs?