Thanks Sikan. And we're both battling depression too.
However, I want her gone now. I hate this person and the fact that she is in my H's life at all makes me very angry and kind of sad too.
I can relate to that so much.. it's exactly how I feel.
Something that I came to recently is that regardless if my H and OW work togther, the issue of their "friendship" and its impact upon my M will only be resolved on its own terms. Regardless if H and OW are co-workers or not, the issue will take time.
And, you are very right. Regardless of where he works, their friendship could be an issue, or not. Thanks for helping me focus. I'm going to have to have patience and look for the good to hang my trust on. There's always the fact that he's going to be working with women wherever he goes. It's just so easy to focus on OW, and say "everything will be better if he'll just get another job!" Thanks for sharing.. I think I realize now that I want a TOTAL fix. Not just him away from her.. but a marriage that will prevent him from having an A with anyone at all.
Gonna let him off the hook tonight and be supportive. He'll either look for another job or not.. and either way, I'm going to work to be the kind of S that he is eager to get home to.. and satisfying to be with.
I'll check out your thread.. thanks for the support. Things are looking up for us, but I know you know, the good comes and goes.. this board helps so much when I'm feeling down and hopeless.
