Mrs Nop states "I saw a stat just yesterday that said the average stimulation time to a woman's orgasm was 20 minutes. If you have a hard time reaching climax, that can seem like an awful long time."
I consider myself very HD and it still takes me a minimum of 10 minutes to have an orgasm, no matter how "into it" I am. That's just my biology. Sex is not all about the orgasm so I certainly enjoy myself before the big climax.
However, Heli, you stated that your W gets frustrated because she is not able to please YOU. That is the wrong mindset. Too much pressure. She probably knows that you can orgasm much quicker than her and therefore she is "laging behind" or whatever.
My H can orgasm within 1 minute if he wants to. In a sense, I am jealous. It is very hard for me to have a "quickie" like a man can. Of course I love it but I do not orgasm. If my H wants the "quickie" he will usually take care of me afterwards or before with oral.
I think there is too much pressure for women to orgasm either thru intercourse or at the same time as their partner. Sure it can happen but that is not the norm.
It's more important that each partner respects how the other is sexually fulfilled so that each is satisfied and no resentments can be built.
