Hi Heli I'm sure I've talked enough about orgasms today but I just reread your first post and I find it hard to believe she is actually achieving orgasm with the "toys" and such and then saying it's just too much work. Huh? That makes no sense. Who doesn't want to have an orgasm once in a while. Her lack of interest in being more than "a hole" as you put it would support this theory that she is not being sexually fulfilled. That is certainly not your fault in any way. She needs to be able to open herself up to the FULL expression of her sexuality, not just spreading her legs and taking it but actually engaging to climax.
