Tried it all, nothing seems to work. Please help

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Anyway, she took a shower, came to bed, plopped down and says, "there. She's clean, go to town." and then jus layed there...

Heli, you should have gotten out of bed, dressed, grabbed the car keys and gone to town, as she suggested.

If my W pulled this kind of passive aggressive BS, I would have said, "thanks, but no thanks."

As you said, it's not about the "hole."

Hairdog