The only couple I'm aware of on this board who have turned their sitch around permanently and to the satisfaction of both parties is the NOPs. Click on Mrs NOP's name in one of her posts and search for all her posts. Find your way back to the beginning of their story. (Hope you have a fast computer; searching back posts can take a while.) You will find hard work and a solid success story in their tale. It's the only solid success story I'm aware of.
