Right...Sorry if it sounded offensive...just never been a GM fan and with all the child abuse subjects here...made me wonder...the song's always been a bit creepy to me with all the innuendos...

Back on topic; the previous post you refer to so thankfully, there...it seems amazing to me that without any other information my wife has been again diagnosed! She HAS been abused??? !!! Sounds like the therapist we saw that was convinced from day one, that she has a secret past and everything is a result of it. Problem was, nothing ever got resolved...seemed, again, the more important thing was scheduling the next visit. I couldn't believe I was paying $150/45minutes to be told to read more books and do the exercises in them and come back next week to pay another $150 to tell her what we learned in the $30 book she told us to read... We got fed up and quit that one.

VERY frustrating. I've told my wife, that when I hit my second career, I'm going to become a therapist. I can do what they do. "How does that make you feel?"

Bottom line: How do you find a good therapist that actually will help?