DeMar---I don't know, I wasn't there...how's that for an answer... Her dad died of a stroke when she was 12. No one can recall anything, but one of her psychiatrists/therapists insisted that she was sexually abused by her father when she was young (6-9 or so) but there's no proof and she doesn't remember anything. Her mom says she doesn't know of anything, but theres a lot of strangenesss there, too.
Again, that's part of the years of therapy that went nowhere.