"Lusty gals who are warm and open can do wonders for a woman who is missing out on the pleasures of sex. " not so much...there have been a few in the past, but it went the wrong direction...they asked her if she ever wanted to be with another woman...that kinda turned her off even more. She's not much of a socialite type anymore. I'm in the military and we recently moved again. The friends she has are all long distance. The neighborhood we live in is a lot of "Stepford Wives" types that she just don't want to associate with.