Maybe I can weigh in on this one and tell you that there is hope for your W, but only if she persues it for herself. Her persuit of her sexuality has to be something she does out of a desire to experience all that life has to offer HER. I can almost guarentee that she will not persue her sexuality if it is something to fulfill your needs. When she sees how it will benefit her, she will be more open to the idea of changing how she looks at the world, herself and you. It has been suggested many times on this board that you read "Passionate Marriage" by David Schnarch as well as "Sex Starved Marriage". Those two books should give you a solid place to start working on yourself and getting the focus off of your Ws lack of desire. Working on yourself is something you can control and will foster changes within your marriage. Best of luck.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
