It's not terribly uncommon for a woman to have that initial "fascination", if you will....just like a man does in the early days of a R....where it seems like you boink like bunnies non-stop...eventually that fascination fades....and that's when the real R begins. It's definitely misleading though when someone does that whether they be a man or a woman.
As for the counseling you two have been to....do you feel like any of the C's actually addressed what you thought to be the real issues? If not, why? Did you two always see a C together, or did she go on her own?
