PM,

How long has your H been on his meds? My H has also been diagnosed with depression and thankfully, his meds are doing wonders. It took them over a month to kick in. And, at one point I called the Dr. frantic because H seemed to be getting worse instead of better. In the end, it's taking double doses of two antidepressants to bring him out of the black hole. He missed his meds last week for one day, and it wasn't pleasant. Without them, he's basically generating no feel good chemicals.

Hang in there! If you can communicate with his Dr. maybe you can let him know that you're not seeing a big change in your H's mental health? Good luck, and if you can get a copy of Divorce Remedy, it's well worth the read and the effort!