Can't really do much for your H's depression, only a specialist can do that. Perhaps your counselor should be a psychiatrist for him?

I will give you the patent advice for anyone on this board, which is to get a copy of "Divorce Remedy" and read it and follow it's advice. It has worked for many of us here.

However, if your only problem in your marriage is his depression, then you really won't be helped by this book alone. You will have to get him help.

In the meantime, please tell us a little more. Is he happy with you - relatively, I mean, as he is depressed. What are your fights about. What do you want to see changed. How do you feel in this relationship? Anything, just tell us some more background so we can help feel out some solutions.


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