I know it is hard, just do the best you can. The less he has to be upset with you about, the better you will feel, because there will be less drama.
I let my EW have almost everything her way, and now, 8 months later, I think this is what is helping us to where we are now. I'm not sure what to call this place. But I know we both are healing a little now. Everything takes time....
M: 35; Together 14 years - married 5.5 no children Bomb 22-JAN-2005; D a few months later First real relationship post D just ended ( 7 months ):(