Do your best to try to comply w/ his request, as much as you don't want to. One of the key aspects to DBing is to act as if it is O.K. Look at it this way, you are calling, not to inform him that you are going there so he can leave, but to confirm that you relative will be there for you to visit. ( I know, she's sick and of course will be at home ) Just put a different spin on it for you.
As for the questions. If he won't answer yours, don't answer his. Be vague. My EW is good at this...
Hope this helps...
M: 35; Together 14 years - married 5.5 no children Bomb 22-JAN-2005; D a few months later First real relationship post D just ended ( 7 months ):(
