Quote: I guess you probably know that asking that question would get you the answer you got. There is absolutely no reason to suspect that WAS/XS will say "I am madly in love with you, I can't live without you" because that doesn't jive with their behavior.
You are right La-esperanza, I really had that one coming.
This whole situation with his grandmother is distancing me from him more instead of bringing in us closer. My family and I went to visit them and he called me today asking how that had happened. Reminded me that we are divorced and is hard to see me at her house. I said "this is what you wanted, this what was going to make you happy, so it should not be hard, now we are both doing our own thing". Told me to call him and let him know everytime I planned to go over so he would not be there.
It bugs the hell out of me to remind me that we are divorce and to try to control me by letting him know when I am coming over. I told him I would but I don't think its fair. I asked how he found out that we went over, and he would not answer, all he would say was "I just know, I always know" , wtf. I "said tell me, answer the question" just like he pressures me to answer his questions and he would not. He always expects me to answer his questions right off the bat and jumps on my case if I don't answer instantly. I do the same to him and he won't budge.
Part of me just wants to tell him to not call me if he has nothing good to say,I don't need to be reminded that we are divorce, if he thinks I visiting his grandmother because I have a master plan, he is sadly misktaken this is not about him. But if I do say anything like that, that would make me look like the old me hostile, and unfriendly and would probably push him towards OW even more.
