Like you, my D is fresh. If you read my posts, you will see that I too go thru these love / hate cycles.
For me, I chose to have no contact w/ EW for almost 4 months. This has allowed her new reality to set in. Just this last weekend, we saw each other for the first time since D in court. It was uneasy at first, but it quickly got better.
It is funny, but "history" that was re-written by her 8 months ago, is sorting itself out to the truth that I know. It takes time. Every one tells you this. It is hard, but it is all you can do. Do your best to GAL,as hard as this is. Post often. When you feel angry, write it out, but DO NOT send it. For me, the act of writing allows me to vent. We are all with you...
M: 35; Together 14 years - married 5.5 no children Bomb 22-JAN-2005; D a few months later First real relationship post D just ended ( 7 months ):(
