For New Comers Do's And Don'ts

[phoenyx]

1, will it help if I make myself fitter (more attractive.

Yes....you will notice her "checking you out" but she probably won't say anything at first.

2, will it help if I continue to make her life easy (cleaning etc) help.

It might, was that a complaint of hers before, right now she is all about herself remember.

3, Will offeering to join in with new pastimes hobbies etc or suggesting them work.

She may see that as you trying to control her.


There is no magic pill for MLC I am sorry to say. What you can do now is read posts, and give her her space. You will want to start a thread of your own. Make the changes for yourself and she will notice. Take care of you and your kids. Good luck