After 16 years of marriage my wife has said she is bored of the home, me and as the kids are nearly independat she has nothing to do. Reading the previous posts has made me see that she is going through MLC she is 40 i am 38.She has said that she isnt sure if she wants to be with me. and that I should give her time to come to a decision as to what she wants to do. I have tried to make life for her easy by cooking, cleaning, ironing etc whilst she works shifts. She is in defferent towards me I give her all the hugs and kisses she avoids me and nothing is returned. I used to work shifts but due to a injury I am now office bound, i have gained a few pounds but we still had an passion for each other. A few questions:- 1, will it help if I make myself fitter (more attractive). 2, will it help if I continue to make her life easy (cleaning etc) help. 3, Will offeering to join in with new pastimes hobbies etc or suggesting them work.
I need help I am in limbo just waiting, cant sleeep, or eat, nothing else seems important at this moment. this has been going on for around 3 months now. Is there anything I can do or say that will, when she is through this bring her back to me.
