OK, so, I have several situations going on, and I have read 6 stages of MLC, re-read DR last night and this morning, made goals for myself and as tomorrow is Monday, I am setting myself up to begin full force first thing in the morning.......
This is my question.
I have noticed that H has distanced himself so much from the family this past month.
I used to get the daily phone calls, then they started dwindling more. now it has been 4 days, no word from him at all. He has not done this before.
I already know that he spent the weekend away.
Right now our marriage is dead, non existant, adamant about divorce, nothing will ever bring him back and I had better get used to it.
We go in cycles.
Then there is the other side of him that can be sweet and caring and considerate, when he seems genuinly concerned with the welfare of the family.
I don't know if this is just another stage of MLC or a control game.
I need help in getting some answers from someone who is also going through this.



There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.