Well it seems pretty obvious that she loves you but she is scared. It's not really surprising since you love her and you are scared.
All that went on before between you weighs on both your minds. "Will it happen again?"
Maybe that's the key, recognizing that she is probably thinking the same things as you. Out there somewhere there is an alternate BB wherein the ex Mrs. Wes is saying "I don't know. We were warming up to each other, and then I find out he told my parents that he wishes I would stay out of his house and move out all my stuff." and all her friends are saying "Go dark!"
Just a thought.
I don't know of any solutions except the idea that maybe you two need to do this little dance for awhile. Depressing, I know.
