Well,

Let's be honest, in the cases where spouses got back together, it is unlikely one or the other returned here to talk about it, though that would be nice.

The decided they needed to focus on the R.

At least this is the theory I am subscribing to.

We all know or at least offer your situation is unique, in that it is not like our divorces. For example, the odds are high you have communicated with X today, even if it was something trivial. I have not talked to X since about 730p last night, yes that is possible, Wes.

I guess it gets down to goals and objectives. What is the objective in treating yours like a more conventional divorce?