Of course you're correct about the ups and downs of any relationship. If I was happily married there would be bad days when I would wonder what I'm doing with this psycho.
Quote: If she really wanted NOTHING to do with you, after the divorce, there would have been no or little contact. From a logical viewpoint, there is no reason for either of you to see or contact the other, is there?
No reason to contact I guess, or at least not a strong one. But maybe she honestly only wants to be friends and wouldn't bother if she knew I couldn't handle it. Of course, that sounds silly even to me. Do you understand this? I don't. Maybe she doesn't either. I'm just on a bad spell here. I'll write more when I'm back up---based solely on bringing myself up.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt