And of course her mood, from your viewpoint was completely because you. Oops, never mind. Quit. Now.
During the M and the courtship I guess there were no bad days, days when ones mood affects their outlook, perspective, attitude, belief in the other person, the relationship, the family, say for instance, your waning enthusiasm right about now?
Of course there are. There are MANY days when you wonder what was I thinking, why am I married to this pyscho woman? Wouldn't it be nice to have 20 minutes to myself without her bugging me?
And there are many days when you know you are in the right time and place and life is good.
And no, you have not really been separated/divorced, but this continuing relationship has been driven by both parties. When you start to RELAX and not worry and not contact, who comes calling?
If she really wanted NOTHING to do with you, after the divorce, there would have been no or little contact. From a logical viewpoint, there is no reason for either of you to see or contact the other, is there?
