I don't know what to tell you, but right now you are caught up in your doubt, impatience, worry, needing definitive answers, NOW.
Is this REALLY what you want? Gabe has a great idea, to step back for a day or two. I suggest you look at it as someone else's scenario. What would you suggest?
This transient relationship has worked for the last x months and you've been moving closer to each other? Why this sudden desire for something to happen NOW?
When you first met, did you rev up the pace of the relationship? Were you intimate and married within a week? I doubt it.
Yes, you want something to happen and guess what? It is. She is not hanging around there and helping and initiating contact because she lost a bet. The girl is clearly delusion and likes you, ENJOY. And guess what Johnny, you are taking to. You maybe need to find a better balance of giver and taker.
I suspect you have read Dr. Harley's stuff on marriagebuilders.com. Go review.
Maybe take a day tomorrow, go ride the bike, go running, go somewhere new. Enjoy the day without thinking. As I said before, time for you.
Treat this marriage/relationship like it is one and decide what you want and then relax.
Trust me as much as it does make me miss having someone to see you with a woman in your life, I am delighted for you and wish I was in the same position. And would probably exhibit the same impatience.
