Analysis is all great when you're trying to figure out the stock market or demographic trends, but it begins to suck in relationships after awhile.
Quote: And we don't talk about our R at all. No more "we can be good together" stuff or "give us another chance" talk
Cool. Don't. The time may come when you will talk about the old R but it isn't here yet for sure. I'm sure you know that, but I just thought I'd chip in with that.
Is it possible you can just enjoy time with XW naturally and not worry about your next move (or hers)? Maybe you can just be instinctual about that. Do what your non-intellectual part suggests. After all, if this is ever going to work out, you can't be having to plot your every move for the rest of your life.
Maybe I am missreading what you are doing, but like me, it seems like sometimes you think too damn much.
