And maybe a little analyzing/reviewing paid off here, huh? Revisting 5LL was a solid idea. I'll need to think about that myself a bit. Off the cuff, In my sitch, I think respect(w/boundaries) mingled with XW's appreciation for WOA and QT(talking) might be a good plan. All while maintaining my changes and GAL work.
What I wouldn't do for a little grinding action! You are very right there - stay patient and keep it at her pace.
The 3 requests for cigs and the giggle when you said okay was interesting. Any signs of snooping when you returned? Maybe experiment with some thong panties shoved b/t the sofa cushions to see what happens! (j/k)