I guess it is easier to catch the pregant women, they can't run as fast.
I guess I don't want to be jaded and you are definitely in that phase. I don't look at or read about other couples and think they are doomed. The ones that really bug me, are when a spouse or X suddenly seems to have an ephinany and the whole previous crap and terrible relationship seems to fly out the window and everything is wonderful. And that is when I think, "Oh come on." A couple of little changes and the WAS seems to notice how wonderful their spouse is and forget the reasons they left and the WAS forgets all the crap they allowed themselves to be put through.
I'm sure you don't want to go through life worrying about every probability that could possibly occur in a relationship. Life and relationships are difficult enough without conjuring up scenarios.
I tell my children to be careful when they go outside, a satellite may fall on them. I suspect the people in Louisiana did not say, "I better not live here or start a business here because a Cat 5 hurricane will wipe out everything we have."
We struggle enough with the daily crap, we don't need to add to it.
Let us know how XW is when you talk to her or see her later.
