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stop analyzing every little thing that happens



Ok. There wasn't anything at the moment that I was analyzing about us. Things seem good.

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You say most of the favors involve the kids. This is a bad thing? She wants you to be involved in the lives of her kids and she wants to be involved in your life



Why now? (I know....I just said ok to not analyzing). The reason she left was to remove her kids from my (and my kids') terrible presence It just bugs me that it's okay for them to spend the night or that she asks me to watch them so she can go to the gym or whatever. But, as you said....I should take the opportunity to enjoy the moment and relax.

In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt