But she still should be checking w/a dr. My ex did a similar thing while he was up, first he said that he was having dizzy spells and needed to hold on to me (hand on waist) while waiting for our table at the restaurant. (hmmm!) Then since he said he was all tense, I offered a back rub and he wanted me to go lower (the cramp was in his tail bone, people! of course that didn't stop me from checking out other places!)
Seriously, they must enjoy the attention or it seems like they would be repulsed by our touch! But the motive behind this kind of action? I have to wonder if my ex seriously planned to have me rub him down while he was visiting. (ok, maybe he did!) But, the analyst wants to know WHY? T
