I got it.

Distant, aloof, leading your own life, you do not have time for her uncertainty, but you will try and be her friend, but without compromising your life and without chasing her.

But, you will be there when she needs you. Look, look what a wonderful guy I am; here in your time of needs, emotionally and physically. Why can you not regognize what a great guy I am? And quit playing this damn game? Give me some points for my effort. Some reward. Something other than this schizophrenic behvior?