I am still lurking and licking my wounds while sitting on the D papers (so they can sniff my butt - seems like Kevin has unleashed a lot of references to various activities involving butts - on his thread I have seen pumping, humping, jumping, sniffing of butts in the past couple of days ).
Anywho, you know what, there are some very key old success stories that I have seen on this bb of WAWs coming back to the LBHs and in each case they came back after the LBH had "given up" and "moved on". Not in the way that you had "given up" (i.e. strong pursuit) or "moved on" (a mix of strong pursuit and mild dating) in the past couple months. But approximating where you are right now, i.e. somewhat comfortable with your life, even questioning whether you want to go to dinner with XW or not. Then the XW began to pursue and want to come back, i.e. when the heat was off in the sitch.
I know (and Bruce will second this as the first line of his post I assure you) that you will go. That is not in doubt. The $$ question is how you will act when you go....
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
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