I am still exploring my options - but I will have to say that I disagree with Allan this time. I don't think it is abnormal to re-marry the same person. Especially when you consider that the couple was very young and made quick decisions, and now have had time apart to grow up. My XH HAS in fact been in another relationship, and his feelings for me did not deminish, they only intensified. We have both been with other people and we both end up back at each other.