Good point. She's probably out more than I am, but a lot of the time doing Parent Association stuff - so still kids / same environment related.

Being very protective of the children it's only recently she will let friends babysit so we can get out together. I'll have to push that along a bit more.

Seems she's forgotten to make time enough time for herself - and us.

Any other helpfull ideas? Does SD come back or is it very difficult to get out of the LD rut if not actively making the effort?