oops sorry, I meant she's on NBC right now! what was that? 9:15am ish, guess it was the TODAY show. She and a medical Dr.(I don't remember her name or the name of her book that was also about sexless marriage) were discussing SSM and some dire consequences to marriage and some methods of fixing em. Hmmmm, you'd think an ad here would have been mentioned by the publisher or something. Nothing was said about the book in planning about ssw. But altho she admitted there seems to be more LDW that it was not a landslide.
The medical Dr. offered up vaginal products for moisture and integredy. She also offered something that made me think of GEL. Where nursing mothers have a hormone?prolactin? that allows the milk to come down. This hormone also mimics the menopausal symptoms of dryness and thinness of the lining, thereby making intercourse painful. After nursing stops the brain may become programmed to think "this is no longer pleasant!" and so sex deminishes.
The nursing/sex thing sounds like it can be helped by "topical" treatments to the vagina if I understood it correctly.
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
No worries....it's easy to get some of the details out of whack at times....she and I both have little ones at home! She's just the one who has been suffering from that horrible infection....which I hope she's over for good now!