RE Chrissy I set a minimum of 8 times a month a year ago which I have made sure I stick to. But we have no certain dates. No saturday is date nights sex night or what ever it could be called. Would you consider this loosly scheduled sex.
Chrissy, you did not ask me but here is my opinion. That would make me so happy. Any day of the week is fine. I am sure a lot of us "going with out most of the time" posters share my feelings.
H wants all his needs meet regaurdless of the cost to me. That is not a compromise that is a dictatorship Chrissy, I am sorry you are in that position. Would your H listen to anyone if they told him he was lucky and would he listen to anyone so he could experience how you are feeling about the frequency/desire differences.
Eventhough some of us guys/gals only get lucky once a month, I am sure we know how you feel and visualise "if" we were in a gender appropriate R with you, we would give you time without asking or hinting about sex. We do it with our spouses even at our own expense. Maybe there is something to the saying "nice people finish last."
