Moving On with H

[BeingMe]

I am a little angry with H at the moment. I have caught him out in another lie. Not to do with OW or anything, but to do with things that affect us financially. Why does he do this, knowing that I am trying to learn to trust him again? He doesn't think it's a big deal, which makes me feel he just doesn't get it! Ugh! I have told him that this is something I will not and cannot accept. So, I'm in a bit of a quandary ... he says sorry, but there is no consequence for him lying to me, again. I am just not going to put up with this for much longer. He doesn't get that I am slowly but surely detaching from him, emotionally. I am falling out of love with him, and have already lost respect and trust, so love is just not far behind.

Really sad, and I have spoken to him, and don't know what else to do. I think I have been patient enough. Maybe we need some time apart. I'm a little unsure as to what to do.