Hi there, I also feel I'm fighting an uphill battle, it's so disheartening at times that I also despair, wanting more and knowing that my marriage is still struggling.

I plan to give it my all, until a certain amount of time, that if I don't see any or very little progress in his part I will also take a hard look, don't want to live in a loveless marriage. I do see some small progress, do you see any progress, postive signs on his part? I know your H doesn't want to do C, but, is there anything he does differently now that gives you some hope?


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.