It's hard for any of us to face our mistakes, I'm sure this is the case with him. The porn thing is a hard habit to break, very hard to shake, if you ever do. Until he realizes that it will always be a factor. You ask any guy about something 10 or so years ago and you'll be lucky if they can get most of the details. Ask them about some porn, the details will come back quite clear. It's quite a destructive tool.
Keep working on yourself and avoid the malicious attitude, even if you feel justified, it will only cause you more pain. Luckily earlier in my life I had a sitch were I did become very bitter about something. Fortunately I had a friend who got me over and past it, that made a huge difference in my life. I would like to say that I'm completely there on this issue, but the fight continues on every day. I'm winning, near the line, but still struggling.
