I remember that phase w/my H, him needing constant reasurance and me giving it, trying to be always lift him up, always trying to be helpful even if I felt like dying inside, it is a draining experience. If you can, I encourage you to keep seeing a C for your own sanity, my C would tell me that all the pressure wasn't good for me(at the time) and that I needed an outlet because I was loosing it.

I also had to deal with double standards, not fair I know. But at least he is affectionate with you, that's something!


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.