There were a few good things that helped me there. One thing that I have been struggling is trying to decide what is GLA and what is just keeping busy with useless activities. Usually the things I want to do bad enough I do. As I have been married W fears and self conscienceness has put a bit of an anchor on things. Some things she is trying to discover now, were things that she turned down when I offered them. You know it's cool when your friends what to do it, but not when H wants to. I think however that seems to be turning around, we'll see.
