Whatever you do, Phoenix, don't move! I should never have allowed this to happen. But, I know how much more problematic it would be, if down the road, he regrets not having tried this, and I am the one blamed. I have always supported him re his career and the jobs he takes. I sure don't want him to be unhappy at work. Pity he has never done the same for me, but that's another story. Anyway, I am a strong person, and I can handle this, with a little help from my bb friends, and the friends in the old city.

We are going away this Friday to visit everyone there, so that will be great. H will come back on Monday, and D13 and I will stay on for a couple more days. It will give me time and space to reflect and get some perspective on our R, and my goals for the future.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim