Moving On with H

[BeingMe]

Still working toward my goals! Studying sure helps one stop obsessing over stuff that really isn't worth obsessing about. I have just started a new fitness regime, and some of my muscles are not happy about that. Ha!

There is an interesting article in the O Magazine (which I seldom buy, but needed something to read while on the treadmill). It's about resilience, and this is a lesson that I am mentally chewing on. Life is about obstacles, opposition, and overcoming problems. It is also about finding joy in the little things, and satisfaction in one's own life, and to know that you are doing the best you can with the tools in your possession. We need to be our own best friends. Being resilient is so important when in the situation of a possible D or S, to not allow what a WAS does to define who we are as individuals. To not allow their choices let us forget who we truly are - I, for one, know myself to be loyal, forgiving, independent, dependable, passionate, caring (especially where my kids are concerned). I am also assertive, clear thinking, and no-one's doormat. I can also get incredibly angry (luckily, it doesn't last long), impatient, pouty, and argumentative, and these are things I need to work on, but I won't allow my faults to overshadow my good points.

Just my thoughts for the day. Hope you are all having a wonderful week.