I know what your feeling. I was fortunate enough to find out that a co-worker of mine went through his MLC a few years back. I don't have all the info, but what he did tell me seem to follow right along with what we read about in the books (DB/DR). He told me a little about how he felt, how they worked through, and how he still loves his wife. His secrets were the same as here, time, space, unconditional love. You would be surprised also how many times some of these "outsiders" know that true love is not "chemically induced", but a day in, day out building relationship. Luckily we have the info and support here that most of these other people do not. I keep telling myself, "your in it for the long haul". When all is said and done, I want to know I said and did it all.
