I agree slowly, the continual lies really hurt. If it was just a PA we would have been alot further along in rebuilding our marriage.
Being Me- my H was always responding to OW after breakup by saying I love my "family" and I want to work on my marriage".... OW was hearing that as "but I still love you" Finally H said I LOVE MY WIFE AND I DONT LOVE YOU. Now I am hoping my H can finally begin to heal and really put this behing him.