Hmmm... I think quizzing CeMar about his expectatins, etc., and expecting something different from him is a circular kind of process...
Anyway... we watched The Vagina Monologues last night and my bf loved it! You can't help but love this wonderful show, written and acted by Eve Ensler. When you see it in person, usually it is done by three women, but Eve did it all, and she is fabulous. The monologues are based on interviews she did with over 200 women and they run the gamut from side splittingly funny to tender to sweet to gut wrenchingly horrible to awe inspiring. I would encourage EVERYONE on this board to rend this dvd and watch it alone or with anyone who will watch it with you.
I know he was apprehensive going into it, and in fact, he even said that if he got uncomfortable, he would leave the room. But he loved it and reacted completely appropriately to everything-- There was one segment where she told the story of how she came to love her V. by having a man who loved to look at her V when they ML. At first she was embarrassed and squeamish when he wanted the lights on and just wanted to look at "her." But when she looked in his eyes and saw the awe and beauty that he saw and felt.. she describes this so beautifully-- "they both got lost in her." It was very moving... and when it was over, he just said, "Wow, that was fabulous!"
