I do get that you understand me now. I didn't until your last post. Your post really says a lot.
I appreciate your hanging in there and really explaining your POV so that I CAN understand. I WANT to understand.
I didn't mean to discount you or speak for you. I'm not nearly as "nasty" as you think. I just get desperate when I feel someone is discounting and not listening to me.
I apologize for and heavy-handed way I may have expressed my passionate feelings about this subject.