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But how does that make my R different from a R between two opposite sex roommates-- take Will and Grace-- who clearly adore each other?




I don't know squat about Will and Grace, except that it is a tv show.

I don't know that you do understand it, you have repeatedly said that you don't feel special, because you aren't having sex.

I can understand that.

You ask whether LD people find that sex makes them feel special. I answered the question by pointing out that different people have different criteria about what gives them that "I'm loved and special to this person" feeling.

And then we circle the block again and come back to the "so what makes it different from roommates, if it ain't sex?"

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Sex does it for you. But because it is of such importance to you, it's as if you can't conceive that *other* people have criteria other than sex that leaves them feeling loved and special.






"*other* people have criteria other than sex that leaves them feeling loved and special."

So, what is the question?

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